Question #1:

Is he an inconsiderate jerk, or is this all in my head? 10 points for any help :( ?

My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship since we both went back to our home states after meeting on vacation. I am deeply in love with him.

Okay, here is the problem. Firstly, he always blows me off when I want to talk on the phone or skype. Always without fail. We talk on the phone maybe once every 6 weeks. Seriously. The rest of the time it's texts and facebook.

I have not seen him for almost a year. I work constantly, but I always make time to talk to him. I never go out or get to have fun because I am working to save money to move for college, and also to visit him. He tells me he can't visit me because he has no money. We have been fighting a lot because of the distance, so I would say seeing one another is pretty important.

So, following his speech to me about how he is mean to me (one thing we argue about) because he's under so much stress from not being able to afford school and not having the money to see me. Of course, I understand. Two weeks later, he enrolls in a $1,000 scuba driving course.

I would understand this if perhaps scuba diving was a lifelong dream of his. But in the 4 years I have known him, he has never said anything about it. Never been to a body of water, hasn't even been in a pool. I take it in stride and I don't say anything. A month goes by, he is going to the swim shop every week buying gear and all kinds of stuff. He also buys concert tickets and things like that. I still say nothing.

Then he and his friends go on a 2 day trip to some diving spot. I get peeved, say nothing.

He just had a 4 day weekend off and spent 3 of those days on vacation 4 hours from his house (I live 8 hours from him) at another dive spot.

I am mad and upset and I tell him everything I feel. He gets mad and defensive (like usual) and the conversation ends with him saying he will change. He doesn't. 3 days later, he has blown off another phone call, and as I just find out- he's going on an $800 dive trip to the Bahamas in October.

Also- we were supposed to go to a concert together last year, and he promised he wouldnt go without me, but when I couldnt make it- he ignored me all day and then 5 minutes before it started he sent me a text that he went with his friend. He also once left me for his ex girlfriend. The list goes on and on.

I want to dump him but I feel bad, because I love him so much, I feel a huge sense of loss about what might have been. What do I do?

Question #2:

Any precautions I should take while vacationing in Mexico this summer (in case I am newly pregnant)?

During my vacation to Mexico next month, I should either be gearing up for my period or 1 1/2 - 2 weeks pregnant. Is it OK to scuba dive? Also, is there anything I should avoid or be careful about during my vacation?

Question #3:

Solo Travel to Zanzibar?

Hi. I'm planning a solo vacation to Zanzibar and I'm hoping to find people on here who have
a) traveled to Zanzibar and b) who have traveled solo in Africa and of course Zanzibar.

Any information you have would be so greatly appreciated. I'm really interested in where you stayed (hotel etc) and if you liked it, did you have enough activities to do or were you bored and also I'm reeeaaalllyyy interested in amenities and stuff like massages and stuff. Finally, were these extras (massage, scuba diving etc) super expensive, expensive, reasonable etc etc

Please share any info you'd like to; the good, the bad and the ugly. Thanks

Question #4:

Help, I might be having my period!?

I'm going on a vacation in 1 week where we will be swimming almost everyday I'm going to Arizon at sliderock state park and then to Catlina Island and will be scuba diving and snorkeling. But my period will probably be coming i'm hoping I'll get it before or after but not likely. I've never used a tampon and I don't really know if it will hurt or not. I am 13 and please don't say talk to your mom. What should I do? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I will try a tampon of you help! Thanks you so much!

Question #5:

Good place for a tropical vacation?

I'm looking for a place for a family of 6 to vacation. The youngest is 15. We want somewhere tropical, on the Caribbean or in latin america. We would like to be able to relax on a resort and beach as well as do a little shopping and maybe scuba diving and hiking. The plan is to go on christmas break, around the dates Dec.23-28, so it has to be hot. Also, we would like white sand beaches with that turquoise water like in Jamaica. i know that's a lot of standards, but they're just ideas. Thank you very much (:

Question #6:

atlantis,bahamas questions?!10 points!?

iam trying to decide how much my vacation will cost..but i have no idea how to find out because in order to find out, i need to put in the exact dates i will be coming!
i just want an average price of what it would be.so would u estimate for me?iam aware of the deals now.
-2 adults, 2 kids (ages 14 and 17)
-cheapest hotel room, it really doesnt matter to us
-would like to take the casual meal dinning plan
-want to to some activites like the dolphin interaction and the scuba diving

basically, what im asking is how much is the least amount of taking an atlantis vacation?the LEAST amount(cheapest hotel) with SOME activities.

thanks so much!

Question #7:

Place to vacation with good surfing & scuba diving/?

My family and I are starting to plan a three week trip to somewhere warm during December. We all are voting on our choices of vacation spots. I want to go somewhere, where I can surf beginner-intermediate waves, scuba dive in various locations and snorkel off the shore. Lot's of stuff to do would be nice as well. It can be anywhere in the world!

Thanks.

Question #8:

Where is THE best vacation spot in mexico?

My boyfriend and I are twenty-one and want to go to Mexico next winter, but have no idea where to go. We don't like to party so that rules out Cancun and Puerto Vallarta. We'd like to scuba dive (maybe), beach it up on an exceptionally nice beach, and maybe see some history in a bigger city. Annnnyyy suggestions?? :)

Question #9:

I am thinking about going on a cruise and have never been but not sure.Can you give me any hints?

I am not really one that is much of a sightseer and dont enjoy being stuck in one spot all the time as I get bored very easily.When we normally go on vacation we go to interactice museums,sports games,theme parks,mini golfing,go cart tracks etc. The point is that I am always on the go. I am afriad that a cruise I would get very bored very easily and feel as though I wasted my money. I swim just well enough to get by and typically dont enjoy the beaches much. So scuba diving is out of the question for me and anything of that sort.I also have a 5 year old daughter and my girlfriend that would be coming with me so I want to include them into any activities that we do and it seems that there are no true family excursions or activities.Am I looking at this all wrong or would there really be things there that can keep me occupied and busy enough to not be bored? Any help would be appreciated.

Question #10:

i want adventure! and recommendations?

so basically i just want to travel somewhere amazing this summer! im still trying to decide, but i want a place with really good scuba diving, beatuiful beaches, a good adventure type thing (hiking to ruins?) , great restaurants, amazing hotel, and just over all pleasent environment. so what is the best vacation you've ever been on? you dont have to fit the description above only if you want to!

Question #11:

Where should i go for my summer vacation?

My dad has free plane tickets, and told me and my mom we can go anywhere in the United States for our family vacation this year except Hawaii. Where should we go? Someplace with pretty views, if it's on the beach like my mom and i want, we want it to have pretty reefs so we can go scuba diving. Any suggestions? Places inland are good too.

Question #12:

French Class Help! 50 points!?

Ok, so i have a major problem. Tomorrow,Monday, i have this project due for french class and i did it but i think i left it at school but im not totally sure where it is. I am only in french 2 so i know nothing because i looked everything up in the book. So if some one could make a new project for me i will vote them best answer and give them 50 extra points

The project is a conversation between two people and they are on a vacation in Martinique. You have to start out saying hello and how the person is. Then you have to have 3 past tense verbs, 3 present tense verbs, and 3 future presh verbs. There also has to be activities like hang gilding, scuba diving, snorkeling, and stuff that you would do on an island vacation. Each person speaking has to have 10 lines. You just have to use those 9 verbs saying that you are going to do something or you have done that.
PLEASE PLEASE HELP!

Question #13:

Can you help with ideas on what to do in oahu with wife?

My wife and I are Traveling to Oahu this year. This will be our first vacation together and I'm looking in showing a memorable 2 weeks before we separate again with me going back to Okinawa,japan and her going back to the states to finish her degree (I'm in the military) . We are also going to be staying at the Hale Koa hotel. I would like go to show her beautiful views and beaches and anything thing exciting like para-sailing, scuba diving to hiking, site seeing etc. Any help would be appreciated.

Question #14:

Puerto Rico or Bahamas and why?

So... I haven't taken a vacation in almost 5 years and cant seem to decide between Bahamas or Puerto Rico; Im seeking some friendly advice. Which place would be better for two single, young professionals? We are both of Latin decent and love to dance! So, with that being said, and if that was all we were in to, the choice would be clear (Puerto Rico). BUT we are also looking to make the best of our vacation doing some scuba diving or snorkeling, water sports, nature hiking and some site seeing.

*The most important "thing" for us is the beach! Which place has the prettiest beach? Clean water, white sand or soft sand, and lots of interesting people? The over all experience?

Please be courteous with your advise; where would you suggest and why?

Question #15:

Looking for a tropical vacation spot in an all inclusive resort on or near a white sand beach with clear blue?

water. Also access to good shopping, waterfalls, horseback riding, hiking, good food, good tours, scuba diving, sight seeing all for a great reasonable price for 2 people on a midlife honeymoon. Can anyone reccommend a resort and or place to go. Preferably from experience please.

Question #16:

obeese friendly vacations/honeymoons?

I am 250 lbs and my fiance is 350. We live in NJ and are thinking of vacations - maybe something for our honeymoon with activities for us.
It doesn't even have to be on the mainland of the US. Maybe we'll go to an island resort or a cruise. Any suggestions are welcome.
My only thing is that I don't care about just laying in the sand sunning for a week. I want to DO things.
Such as snorkeling/scuba diving, but will they have suites big enough for us?
Would a massage on a massage table be uncomfortable?
Would dune buggy's/ATV's be uncomfortable?
Are we too heavy for a zip line?
What about water/jet skiing?
I would like to hear what great vacations plus size people have taken to help me decide where I'm going to go.
Anything rude will be reported.

Question #17:

family of 5, where can we take a vacation please help!!!!!?

i'm 40 & my husband is almost 50, we want to go on vacation somewhere in the Caribbean with our 3 kids ages 17, 9, 9.
where can we go in that we all can enjoy, we don't smoke or have pets or like golf or scuba diving (too scared).
we want a affordable place to go to, we'll be together in 1 room, for about 8 days to 12 days in July & airfare included in the package.
please help mentioned places & deals
thank u soo much
if you have more information my email address is
dancejust15@yahoo.com

Question #18:

Is this a good summer vacation?-?

We live in North Carolina. We will be spending our summer in Hawaii. Every two years we spend our whole summer in a few places. The other years- We stay home, we go one 1 vacation (small one), we go to places in the area and we play outside.

This year- It is the summer where we spend time at a place for the whole summer.
I am marrying this wonderful man who is 30. I am 26. He has two daughters ages 11 and 5.
We are doing this-

(EDIT: We will have another vacation, but it is split into two parts. We will spend Spring Break in Orlando doing nothing. We will miss one school week in May to go to amusement parks and different places. It is technically NOT our summer vacation.)

This summer we are spending it in Hawaii. Except we will take tiny steps to get to each place at a time. We will be driving in a "fancy" bus to Tennessee. Nashville to be exact. We leave on June 10th.
We will spend 5 days in Nashville. Getting horse back riding lessons, going to a dude ranch, going to a rodeo. It will be fun, especially the shopping. We will also drive to Pigeon Forge and go to Dolly World and one of those shows. And relax for 5 days before the big trip to California.

Then on June 20th, we will ride to Oklahoma to go to an airport in the same bus. The bus is not like a school bus. It is like a tour bus, with comfy seats and lots of space. We will leave at around 4 in the morning and arrive at about 10 pm at night. We will spend 2 days at a hotel and rest, rest and rest.

June 22, we will be flying to California. San Diego, to be exact. We will go to Sea World, Disney Land, Lego Land, and to the beaches. We will also spend 3 days in Los Angeles. We will go star hunting, go to the Chinese Theater and the walk of fame, we will go to the beaches. Then we will drive back to San Diego airport.


June 30th- We will go to Hawaii. Maui. We will fly from San Diego, to there. We will arrive in Hawaii and settle in a hotel. In Hawaii we will go swimming, go to the beaches, get Hula Lessons, go to the spa, go scuba diving and everything in Maui. Even ziplining and going to a Luau.

August 1- We will leave Hawaii. We will fly back to Mississippi and drive back. We will have our family car transported there. We will spend the rest of the summer going to different local places.

How is this summer vacation?

Question #19:

Best vacation spot in the Caribbean?

okay well were going to be free for a week in 2 weeks so we want to go to the Caribbean. i enjoy snorkeling-scuba diving. However there has to be something other to do than hang out on the beach as in landmarks, shopping, etc. The place has to be SAFE also. CAN YOU PLEASE ALSO RECOMMEND ANY HOTELS TO STAY AT ( less than 450 a night) Also it would be great if the hotel had tons of things to do

Question #20:

What island would be a good fit for me for a vacation.?

I will be traveling with my family. Things I would like to do for the vacation:
*zipline (the steeper the better)
*ride jet skis
*crystal clear and shallow waters
*snorkel and scuba dive
*just relax at the beach sipping on a pina colada
*the less the crowd the better
*i would love to kayak in some shallow crytal clear waters
*relaxing vibe

will be traveling during june, and hawaii is a no no (too crowded). thanks and please not too far from usa
HANG GLIDING WOULD BE AWESOME





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